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Salespeople usually aren’t short on knowledge. If anything, they’re carrying too much of it into every call, email, and intro.

But buyers don’t reward effort. They reward clarity. And in a world where attention comes in seconds (not minutes), “let me tell you everything we do” is a fast path to ignored outreach and flat meetings.

The fix isn’t more activity. It’s sharper messaging.

Arnaud Dasprez, CEO and Founder of HexaGroup, spoke with Michael Halper, Founder and CEO of Sales Scripter, to break down why most sales messaging fails and what to replace it with. Mike has built his work around helping reps communicate with confidence without sounding canned: what to say, what to ask, and what to leave out.

In this blog post, you’ll learn what a “real” message is, why product-first pitches still dominate, how to shift to a prospect-first approach that earns attention, and how one clear message can power everything from calls to emails to your website. 

Listen to the full episode here 

“Everything that you want to say about that product is your message.”

Messaging in sales isn’t just a tagline or a one-line pitch. It is the full set of ideas you choose to communicate about your offer. That includes problems you solve, outcomes you deliver, and questions you ask.

Most sellers don’t think in those terms. They think in terms of decks, calls, and emails. However, each of those channels still draws from one underlying message, even if no one wrote it down.

Seeing messaging as a foundation changes the work. It forces teams to choose what to say first, what to leave out, and how to keep the story clear. Once that base exists, it can inform scripts, website copy, social posts, and outreach in a consistent way.

“95% or more of salespeople use a product-focused sales message.”

Product-first messaging is the default because it feels safe. It usually sounds like: “Here’s who we are. Here’s what we sell. Do you need it?”

The problem is that it asks prospects to care about you before they feel understood. And most buyers won’t do that, especially in complex B2B markets where risk is real and vendors blur together fast.

Prospect-first messaging flips the center of gravity. It leads with the buyer’s world:

  • The pain they already recognize
  • The costs of staying stuck
  • The improvements they want (or are being pressured to deliver)
  • A few sharp questions that surface whether change is worth it

This “less about me and more about you” approach creates real dialogue. It uncovers areas where the offer fits, then introduces the product as a precise answer, not a loud pitch.

“Politicians use a message, and their message is not what school I went to.”

Political campaigns offer a useful model for sales teams. Candidates don’t stand on stage and recite their résumé for an hour. They talk about the lives, worries, and hopes of the people they want to serve.

They also build everything from one clear message. Speeches, interviews, emails, and events repeat the same core promises and pain points in different forms.

Sales messaging benefits from the same logic. You define a message around what you will improve and what you will decrease for customers. That message then shapes questions, proof points, and offers across formats.

This doesn’t mean reading a stiff script. It means using an outline of pains, outcomes, and questions as a guide. People still speak in their own words, but they don’t improvise from a blank page every time.

“All of these different forms of communication should be built on and pulled from the message.”

Once the core message is clear, it can power every channel. Calls, emails, social messages, and networking intros all draw from the same set of pains, outcomes, and questions.

The structure stays stable. The expression shifts. On a call, a rep leads with a problem and asks two short questions. In an email, they might focus on one key outcome and a single question. In a social message, they might tease one pain point and invite a short reply.

The channel isn’t the main change. The audience is. Teams can hold different messages for different industries and roles. The product may stay the same, but the pains and gains for finance, operations, and IT differ. Tailored messages in their language create more interest and trust, while still using the same method.

“Most organizations marketing and sales are not aligned.”

Misalignment shows up as whiplash. 

Marketing talks about pains, outcomes, and stories. Sales reverts to features, specs, and “we’ve been around since...” Prospects end up hearing two versions of the company, sometimes in the same week.

A shared message foundation fixes that faster than most “alignment meetings” ever will.

When sales defines a clear set of:

  • pains
  • outcomes
  • proof points
  • questions

…marketing can use the same material across the web, campaigns, ads, and content. Sales inherits language that’s actually usable in conversation. New reps ramp faster. And the brand stops sounding different depending on which door the buyer walks through.

Alignment here isn’t abstract. It shows in clearer campaigns, stronger calls, and better handoffs.

“Create a list of three improvements your product or service delivers.”

You don’t need a six-month initiative to improve messaging. A single seller can start tomorrow with three simple lists:

  • A list of three concrete improvements your offer creates.
  • A list of pain points you help to solve.
  • A list of good questions that surface those pains.

These lists shift the focus from “what we sell” to “what changes for you.” They give reps better intros, stronger replies to “we’re fine,” and more natural questions in meetings.

AI adds extra support here. It can help brainstorm pains, refine outcomes, and suggest questions for each segment. It can’t replace human contact, but it can raise the quality and speed of the work.

Messaging itself remains a timeless skill. Conditions change, tools change, and markets shift. The need to say the right thing, in the right way, in a small window stays the same. A message that keeps evolving with that reality gives sellers a clear edge.

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